Why do Men Cheat in Marriage?
“Why do men cheat in marriage despite having beautiful wives?” is a question I hear a lot.
Men do enjoy being around beautiful women, particularly those who know how to project glamour and beauty all of the time. Yet, it is common to wonder why some men cheat despite having beautiful wives.
A lot of people think men cheat because they like to taste new things. However, most times it goes beyond that. While many men who cheat are tagged bad and promiscuous, some good men are forced to do so because of the situation in their marriage. A man who enjoys his marriage will most likely not cheat on his wife. On the other hand, a man who has a shaky marriage with problems will almost certainly cheat.
Here are 5 reasons some men cheat in marriage:
They lack peace in their marriage
Some men despise returning home early because their intolerable wife would nag them until late at night, and then continue the following morning until they leave for work. Men who experience nagging, criticizing, shouting, swearing, threatening, and cursing from their wives are prone to having mistresses or second wives! They flock to women who bring them peace rather than shatter them!
Sexual imbalance
In some situations, married men decide to cheat on their spouses because their wives are unable to satisfy their sexual needs.
They don’t get appreciated by their wives
Men love to be praised. Women who see nothing good in their husbands and never appreciate them for the little they do, gradually kill their man’s passion for helping them out. When such men come across pleasant women who recognize and sing praises to them for every little thing they do for them, they become drawn to them.
They don’t get the support they need from their wives
Men desire women who will be there for them if they need an assistant. These assistants could be in the form of advice, encouragement, etc. Women who leave their husbands to deal with their problems alone often push them away to those who are willing to assist when they need assistant the most.
They lack fun in their marriage
It’s so appealing to have a fun spouse. Nobody wants to come home to a spouse who has a gold medal in sulking every day. It’s sad if two people who are supposed to be in love can’t make each other laugh and happy. In the end, they get drawn to others who can bring them joy.
If you discover your husband cheats on you, savage your marriage by trying to understand the reason he does. Identify what is missing and try to fill the gaps!
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May 1, 2021 @ 9:36 pm
Most men are actually promiscuous in nature, so whether their wife satisfy them or not , they will still cheat.
May 1, 2021 @ 10:59 pm
So you mean you understand why men cheat by only 5 points. Let me get married first.
May 2, 2021 @ 8:19 am
Nice points
May 2, 2021 @ 9:28 am
So why cheat.. Will cheating bring them the peace they desire? why Can’t they work on their marriages instead.
Kudus to the writer, more powers to ur elbow.
May 2, 2021 @ 3:36 pm
Men are biologically wired to have more than one woman. Religion and cultured streamlined their way of life to them having just one wife. And that’s why it’s difficult to have them stick to this learned behaviors most times.
May 3, 2021 @ 8:33 am
Why men cheat lolz,
Men are polygamous in nature we should understand that first, but then with your points stated here it will help keep our husbands, spouse, partner and get them glued to us alone.
May 6, 2021 @ 4:45 am
Lol frustration in marriage is one common trigger that leads to that, after several attempt to resolve the issue and to know avail. Lack of communication is another one. Lack of respect, Low compatibility – {people who married for the wrong reason} and sex addiction in one partner increases the chance that they will be unsatisfied with the physical aspect of their marriage and look elsewhere
May 7, 2021 @ 10:32 am
Men by nature have a high tendency to stray. And women don’t understand.
May 13, 2021 @ 2:44 pm
I won’t agree with people said above. Men are not wired to cheat. It take more than just to cheat for a man to say he will cheat. I quote and I repeat. When a man have knowledge about what it takes to be married and the consequence of being promiscuous. Even if a naked woman is walking beside him. His Adrenalin will die off. I will conclude by saying this because if I continue to type.. I won’t finish today. Seek for knowledge on how to go before marriage. Marriage is just am empty cup. What you bring in remains there. Thanks ID for this privilege